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Tap For Life Newsletter April 2019

Let go of the Stress and Tap into your Life!

Life's Lessons
I recently co-facilitated my 1st weekend retreat - it was a wonderful experience and learning opportunity for me.  And it has made me think about healing (which is why many come to a retreat).  What are the stages of healing?  I dug out the Kubbler-Ross Model of the stages of grief and tried to superimpose this on how my thoughts on the healing process has unfolded:

1- Shock and Denial: Initial realization of our situation then denying or pretending nothing is wrong (feeling that nothing should be wrong), we may push down and ignore our own feelings, healing doesn’t happen much at this stage although we all go though it for shorter or longer periods of time.

2- Anger and Frustration: This is where blame comes in, whether at a particular person, the system, ourselves, God, the Universe, the world.  The focus is fear based.

3- Bargaining: Looking in vain for a way out. Looking for someone else to tell us what to do. The magic pill. Wanting someone else to save our life or fix us.  Focus is that the answer is outside of ourselves. Not trusting our own inner wisdom to guide us.

4- Depression: Realizing the inevitable.  When nothing seems to work.

I believe that we can get stuck going back and forth in these four first stages and it isn’t until after we move through them that real healing and changes can begin.  Awareness focused inward can help us move through these stages - what are we feeling in our body, what are the emotions, what thoughts and beliefs do we have running through our minds?  Awareness and understanding of what is going on inside of us instead of outside of us is a step in taking responsibility for our own healing - and this is where our power lies.  Then we can move on to the next stages:

5- Testing:  Looking for real solutions from this new understanding of ourselves,. Finding processes, techniques, developing skills that work for us.  Trusting ourselves.

6- Acceptance: Finding peace with what is (with love) and letting go of the suffering around it.  We may even find a gift in the healing that we couldn’t have foreseen...

I know that at times, I step back into denial, anger, frustration, barganing or depression with my own healing, but through the practice of awareness I don’t find myself lingering there very long.  And this allows me to heal the past, present and future.

It is work but so worth the effort!

Healing is an Art.
It takes Time.
It takes Practice.
It takes Love!

From my heart,

Upcoming Events

"Dealing with Stress"

Support & Coaching Drop in Sessions with Lisa Kopil

During these monthly drop-in sessions we will address how stress affects us and different techniques that can be used to let go of stress, change our thinking/beliefs about what is causing the stress and bring more clarity, grounding and health into our daily lives.  Come out to share, connect, discuss and get a new perspective or new ideas on how to deal with the stress in your life.

Monthly drop in sessions will be held at the Carp Ridge Wellness Center every 2nd Thursday of the month (10:30 to 11:30am) and every last Wed of the month (7:00 to 8:00pm).

Location: Carp Ridge Ecowellness Center (Main clinic 4596 Carp Road, Carp, ON)
Fee: By Donation
Please contact me for more information or to let me know if you plan on coming out. 

Introduction to Meridian Tapping

During this free 30 minute session to tapping, you will be introduced to the basic concepts and how it can work for you. 

Session in person or by Skype. Please send me a message to schedule an appointment - contact.

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